Whole hearted agree with this...

I'm a romantic... but not in relationships. I get a white rose at ren faire, it's become a tradition. Every year I always make sure Badger knows that I still want one ahead of time because nothing is more frustrating in a relationship then really wanting something and not getting it because your "hints" weren't as obvious as you thought they were or god forbid the other party isn't telepathic.

As I am winding through this year I keep going over need verses want. I'm writing my own vow for the wedding and the crux of it will center around the fact that I do not need Josh in my life. I want him, very much so, he makes me laugh and brings wonderful new perspective to my life. Plus he feeds me, the way to my heart is through the stomach (and if you want to get technical up through the ribs but who's violent).

We aren't doing a unity candle at the ceremony. I am not going to become him or vice versa. I don't want to say our lives will be parallel (since parallel lines never touch) overlapping sine curves seem to be my best analogy.

Read the article, it makes much sense.
http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/01/17/love.songs/index.html